First—congratulations! Getting engaged is one of the most exciting moments of your life, and it’s completely normal to feel a mix of joy, butterflies, and “Where do we even start?” The good news: you don’t have to figure it all out at once. Here’s a simple guide to help you enjoy the moment while setting a smooth foundation for planning your wedding. Besides calling us, here a great to do list!

1. Celebrate and Be Present

Before anything else, take time to soak it all in. Celebrate with your partner, snap a few photos, call your loved ones, and enjoy the glow of this new chapter. Wedding planning will be there when you’re ready.

2. Talk About Your Vision

Sit down together and dream a little.

Do you imagine an elegant affair, something intimate, a destination wedding, or a fun celebration full of personality?

You don’t need exact details yet—just get on the same page about the vibe and the feeling you want the day to have.

3. Establish a Realistic Budget

Your budget shapes every other decision, so this is the time for an open and honest conversation about what you’re comfortable spending. Include anyone who may be contributing. Once you have a general range, planning becomes so much less stressful.

4. Create a Guest Count Estimate

You don’t need the full list right away, but a ballpark number helps narrow down venue options. A wedding for 40 people looks very different than one for 200.

5. Choose a Target Date or Season

Pick a few dates or at least a season you love. Flexibility can help you secure your dream venue more easily, but having a general timeframe gives your planning structure.

6. Research and Tour Venues

Your venue sets the tone—style, capacity, budget, and even some vendor requirements. Make this one of your first major bookings. Once the venue is secured, everything else falls into place.

7. Consider Hiring a Wedding Planner

This is one of the best decisions couples make early on. A planner guides you through budgeting, design, vendor selection, timelines, and the countless small details you don’t even know exist yet. We help simplify the process so you can actually enjoy being engaged (imagine that!).

8. Start Your Vendor Wish List

Think photography, floral design, catering, entertainment, and any extras that matter to you. Getting on vendor calendars early ensures the team you love is available on your big day.

9. Stay Grounded in the Joy

Planning a wedding is a journey, not a sprint. Try to take it step by step, lean on the professionals you hire, and remember: the heart of your wedding is the love you’re celebrating.